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NOTE1851

A BIDDING AT WEDDINGS IN WALES

By W. SPURRELL.

The practice of "making a bidding" and sending "bidding letters," of which the following is a specimen, is so general in most parts of Wales, that printers usually keep the form in type, and make alteration in it as occasion requires. The custom is confined to servants and mechanics in towns; but in the country, farmers of the humbler sort make biddings. Of late years tea parties have in Carmarthen been substituted for the bidding; but persons attending pay for what they get, and so incur no obligation; but givers at a bidding are expected and generally do return "all gifts of the above nature…

Topics: Wedding Customs, Bidding, Victorian Social Practices

Locations: Wales, Carmarthen, New Market House, Market Place